Is it all right if a woman comments on penis size with you guys? I stumbled onto this site accidently and have read most of the comments and questions.

I have been with men who are over 9″ and were so infatuated with themselves that even though they could really “f–k” I didn’t want to continue in a relationship with them. I have also found that the “big guys” think they’ve got it made. Not. I have had two lovers who had trophy wives that “looked the part” but that rarely if ever wanted sex and were not sexy in life or even in bed. It must be for them what it’s like to be a woman with a guy who’s really hung but who is a dud in the areas that really matter.

I have had my present lover for over four years. He is barely 5 inches. Perhaps because he isn’t “endowed” he has worked on other parts of his personality and technique. He NEVER leaves me feeling unsatisfied. He always makes sure I have as many orgasms as I need. He uses his hands, his tongue, his mouth, his thigh, even his toe! He is clean and well groomed. He tells me I’m beautiful and that he wants me every time we’re together. Every time. Do you know how nice it is for a woman to hear that over and over. Really builds her up. And I’m not all that bad looking either! He touches me fondly whenever we’re out in public. He’ll do little things to surprise me like showing up with champagne and chocolates for no reason. He’ll call me on my pager several times a day when he’s horny telling me what he wants to do with/to me when we’re together again. He emails me sexy comments. That’s exciting. He is fun to be with and makes me laugh. Lots. I keep coming back for more because I enjoy being with him so much. One of my friends asked me what it was like to be with him and I told her to imagine a really good f–k and then throw in a massage. She’s jealous. He makes her laugh too when weall go out together. Who knows, maybe we’ll even be able to talk her into a threesome. He and I are game for it.

I like men and I love to suck a hard dick and to enjoy sex. If I had to choose, I would be looking for a lot more than just penis size and I think I’m not too different than most other women. The women I know focus more on who the penis is attached to than on the size of the penis.

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1. Measure your dick. BEFORE you start!
2. Choose a technique and stick with it. There’s no way to predict results…unless you give up or don’t try, in which case you’ll certainly get none!
3. Record time spent each day, and what you did.
4. Be patient. We’re talking months. First noticeable changes may appear in 10-14 days.
5. Avoid pain. A little discomfort is normal. If it hurts, though, stop and reconsider.
6. Work on your feelings and attitude. Confront your own fears, shame and anxieties. I suggest writing everything down as you sort through your memories and feelings:
   • When did you first think your penis was small? Why?
   • Who was with you? Did that person do or say something?
   • Were you embarrassed?
   • What if you could go back to that situation, with a bigger penis?
   • Does anyone else care how big your penis is? Why?
   • Have you ever felt your penis was perfect? What was the situation?
   • Can you imagine your penis being perfect a few months from now?
   • What (or whose) do you want penis to look like, ideally?
7. Work on positive self-esteem. If you’ve got a bad attitude about your penis, it doesn’t matter what size it is. For some people, positive self-esteem comes naturally. Others of us have to work on it. Try this: Say to yourself: “I LIKE myself.” Smile when you say it. Say it again! And again! Tell yourself hundreds of times each day, with feeling: I LIKE myself… I LIKE myself… I LIKE myself…”
8. Talk to others. That’s what forums are for!
9. Make the best of what you’ve got…
   • Trim your pubic hair to make your penis look bigger.
   • Exercise! Reducing body fat makes your penis look longer.
   • Don’t pee before showering in the locker room. Your penis will be larger.
   • a quick tug or two can add “instant size” before undressing, especially after you’ve been milking for a while. Of course, this might not be cool if you end up with an erection in the locker room!